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            The Balance of Culture
            By Jovan Jande            
             
            Michigan, USA, Sep. 19, 2015           
One   of the biggest struggles of second and further generation American born   Indians is the balance of understanding and representing their own   culture while also participating and blending with the common American   culture. Now a days there is no way for children to be fully immersed in   only one of the two, simply because of the school systems, forms of   entertainment, and even food. The question then is how do these Indian   American children balance the two cultures and know when to utilize and   represent the two? 
  
     The balancing of the cultures happens in two stages; 
   The   first stage is to understands the culture and what culture is beyond a   surface level. The children need to be able to comprehend what it is   that their culture represents, the history that it has, what it stems   from, and what it looks like now around the world. Once the child has   understood this and taken the initiative to learn about their culture,   the second stage becomes simple. The child needs to find pride in their   culture. For most kids finding this pride isn’t easy at first because   they don’t know what they can be proud of; however, once this beyond   surface level knowledge is gained the child can find one aspect of the   culture that they feel proud of. This sense of pride allows the child to   want to share and represent their culture. Now that this want to   represent their culture is instilled, the balance of the cultures   becomes the next step. 
                  Balancing the cultures becomes a sense of understanding where they are,   or what the situation asks for. Certain situations, often at home or   family’s houses the child needs to represent their Indian culture   whereas at school there is a greater need to reflect more of the   American culture to blend with the community. This comes with practice   as the child learns where they are and what the people of the area   represent. If the people are representing Indian culture then that is   what is needed as opposed to a place with the American culture where   more American aspects would be reflected. Keep in mind, the Indian   culture should always be there to an extent, however, certain situations   require less of it to be shown for purposes of blending in and meshing   with society.  
                   Finding a balance between cultures is a struggle that every American   born Indian goes through and struggles with. However, the process   becomes easier when an appreciation and want to represent the culture   becomes attained through learning and when an understanding of when to   reflect what culture is gained. While many parents want their children   to represent Indian culture all the time, this is an unrealistic goal to   an extent. An aspect of the culture will always be shown, whether   through skin color, attire, food, language, and simply discussion of   their culture; however, for one to be 100% Indian 100% of the time is   unattainable simply because of society. 
              
              
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