Respect
your Self
It is nice to care for everyone’s feelings.
Pay attention to your own feelings too. Don’t ignore what
your heart says. If it says it is not good, most probably it is
not. Question and say some thing if anything hurts and makes you
feel bad. If you stay quiet and ignore your feelings, you will
get used to it and others will get used to it too. Every time
your heart is hurt, whether you say something or not and your
might think you have moved on, some residue of the pain will linger.
Unless, the pain pattern stops, the accumulative residue will
build up and start hurting your heart till you can’t take
it any more. You can’t blame others who hurt you if you
never complain, because they might not even know what is happening
in side you.
Your first responsibility is to your Self. If
you don’t make yourself important no one else ever will.
If someone loves you they will also accept who you are. You don’t
have to always sacrifice yourself to be accepted or loved. If
you can’t love yourself, can you really totally love anyone
else? Taking care of someone else with all your might while not
getting any care in return, might seem like love; but there might
be some acute need for attention and acceptance hidden behind
all that work.
Don’ let anyone make you feel like furniture,
an object without feelings. It hurts and keeps hurting till you
do something about it. You have to know that you don’t deserve
to feel that way. Don’t let anyone hurt your self esteem.
No one should make you feel less about yourSelf.
No relationship is worth it if it doesn’t
make you feel good about your Self.
