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File;1014 Is it money and Parents are enough for NRI to dump his wife and daughter in India? Her first email: My Name is Preeti,staying in Mumbai with my parents from last 2 1/2yrs. I got married in 2001 25th feb. Me and my husband had a peaceful life.. but after his parents came to USA, everything got changed.. My problem is he just listens to his parents.. and not taking any decision. My husband is not ready to call me back to USA. I have a 5yrs old daughter.She is an USA citizen. He is not sending a single penny for our survival. Is there any law, using it I can join him, or I can force him to call me.. .. He is keeping conditions that I should join his parents if I want to join him and he will call me whenever he wants(he is just making fool to everyone) I dont have his address... so how can I findout his add and how can I proceed to get the justice... Our opinion: Our reporter from US contacted her in Bombay three time and one time her husband in US. According to our reporter with talking both parties, they had a normal life as husband and wife before his parents came. She was sent to India with her baby that all they would settle in India, according to his wife. Later on his parents also went back to India. He is alone here in US and saving money with no support to his wife and child in India Interestly, his wife is still like to join with him. Even she had a valid case for dowry 498A LAW and under this law his parents can be put in jail within couple of days but under hope she did not do it. After the advice of the reporter to her husband, he became excited and telephoned to his wife next morning. After few weeks, he changed his mind and told her to stay with his parent six month and then he will consider sponsoring her, according to his wife. Read Full Story: May 21, 2007 Below is the result of your feedback form. It was
submitted by Name_First112206: Preeti LAST: Panchal City, Country: Mumbai,India EMAIL: preetypanchal@rediffmail.com Telephone: In File Name of this Article: What steps should be taken Add your (cut & paste) opinions/ comments/: Hi, My Name is Preeti,staying in Mumbai with my parents from last 2 1/2yrs. I got married in 2001 25th feb. Me and my husband had a peaceful life.. but after his parents came to USA, everything got changed.. My problem is he just listens to his parents.. and not taking any decision. My husband is not ready to call me back to USA. I have a 5yrs old daughter.She is an USA citizen. He is not sending a single penny for our survival. Is there any law,using it I can join him, or I can force him to call me.. .. He is keeping conditions that I should join his parents if I want to join him and he will call me whenever he wants(he is just making fool to everyone) I dont have his address... so how can I findout his add and how can I proceed to get the justice... If u have any suggetions pls mail me on preetypanchal@rediffmail.com name: Submit May 21, 2007 From: Preety Yogesh Panchal [mailto:preetypanchal@rediffmail.com]
Hello Mr Gary sing, Writing u my story.. My name is Preety Yoesh Panchal.. I got married to NRI Mr.Yogesh Panchal on 25th Feb 2001 with the blessings of my and his parents... and well wishers. My husband is a s.w engg.. self made man.. raised from very poor family.. He called me to USA Houston (TX)on 17th July2001, We had very happy married life... we were like a lovebirds.. always together caring for each other.. loved a lot.. God blessed us with beautiful princess Shreya on 24th Oct 2002.. which made us more happy... To share these precious moments I called my In-laws. For few days everything was fine, but my in-laws started typical saans -bahu drama by telling small small things to my husband, and he was also so listening to her.. I never replied her back but she took advantage of it... My husband once told me that I wanna buy a beautiful house for my parents.. so if u stay in India for a year we will able to save some money.. I came to India and stayed with my parents and also completed my studies.. but within that year my In-laws tried there best to make us fight like a cats... When I again went back in May 2004 with my 1 1/2 daughter.. my husband was totally changed man and just listening to his parents and used to fight with me.. saying bad words to my family members and biting me a lot.. He also used to go out keeping me and my daughter alone at home for 2 to 3days... well after torturing he forcefully send me to India
with my daughter and its been 2 1/2 yrs .. he is not ready to
call me..Not sending me a single penny for my daughters education
or in her illness.My daughter also suffered with kidney problem
but after informing him, he never called my daughter ,so he can
save some more. He has ruin my and my daughter's life just because
of his parents greediness.. They are thinking, I will stay in
India ,son will save money for them.. I request to all oldies,keep there nose away from there son's happy marriage life... because it makes impact on there own third generation. My Husband's full name is Mr.Yogesh M Panchal I will be in touch with u.. and u also keep in touch with me.. Thanks for ur help Take care Take care Our Press reporter Contact her husband, Mr.Yogesh Panchal :
She thanks our reporter because he called after long time From: Preety Yogesh Panchal [mailto:preetypanchal@rediffmail.com]
Hello Mr.Gary, First of all thanks to u... I believe u spoke to my husband yesterday after u receive my mail... Today morning only(yours yesterday night)he called me and spoke to me very nicely.. he didnt tell me conversation betn you people but he said "I got call from some reporter....and I wanna solve problem betn us"...He has promised me that he will call me around month of August so we can start my daughter's schooling... Right now he has told me that I should goto his parents for may be a month and then we will work with visa... I am keeping my fingers cross that whatever he spoke, he will do that and he'll not change his tongue.. I will be in touch with u.. though.. If needed I will take ur help. I really .. appreciate ur call.. and I feel like
we must be having some kind of good relation in our past life.
I am thankful to u.. Preety
June 10, 2007 Her husband changed his mind again From: Preety Yogesh Panchal [mailto:preetypanchal@rediffmail.com]
Sorry to mail u so late... Well as u spoke to me that day... I mail my husband and gave him threat also.. but he is not afraid of anything.. well I spoke to my lawyer also.. ............................... he can use the section of 420..(fraud)also. My lawyer has few cases in his hand ............................................... I have got letter from Indian consulate that they r searching my husband's add .. and if they won't sucseed then court automatically take help of USA gov to find my husband.. He told me that ur case is very simple dont make it complicated.. he has to pay for ur daughter and for u for last 2 1/2 yrs... and the big thing we will get outcome fast. I will update u abt my case.. and I hope ,If I needed I will get help from u.. As I told u for my daughter sake I wanna give him one chance.. because I know whatever happening is just becuase of his parents.. he might change his mind after few months.. Well I am really happy that someone from USA is
there to help me or guide me..
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