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Helping Indo-Canadian Youth Surrey, Vancouver, June 01,2009 The recent spate of violence in Metro Vancouver during the past few weeks has sent shock waves throughout the country. It has caused a lot of concern to every law-abiding citizen. This time around, it is not only the South Asian community but also the community at large that has been severely impacted by these developments. The police in all jurisdictions have been doing a commendable job in tackling this menace. Even one life lost is one too many. This on-going cycle of carnage has adversely affected
a large number of people in every community. This is more so in
the South Asian community, which has lost close to 132 young men
(mostly in their twenties) to drugs, gangs and violence during the
past fifteen years. Consequently, for the past several years, it
has been actively engaged in preventing violence. Whether it is prevention, intervention or enforcement, to its credit, the South Asian community has always been in the forefront. It is a challenge for all of us. Nevertheless, we need to continue to work hard in helping our young people and in keeping our communities safe. It is rather unfortunate that lately, some of the
young people in their late teens are reported to be drawn into certain
undesirable activities. This indeed is very worrisome. It calls
for even greater efforts by our community to keep such vulnerable
youth from joining the wrong crowd. The best way to do this is through
education, awareness and prevention. There is no doubt that adolescence is a very challenging phase in a childs life. However by following some very simple rules we can have good relationship with them. First and foremost, we need to earn our childrens respect rather than demanding it. This can be best accomplished by showing them respect. It works both ways. In order to get respect you have to show respect. Second, we must become good listeners. Always pay full attention to your child when he/she is trying to say something to you. Hear them out without being judgmental. Listening is a great skill and an excellent asset. Also, keeping an open mind is very helpful in this regard. Rather than prejudging we should be open and give our children an opportunity to say their piece. Third, we should always keep our cool. A peaceful mind generates power. By staying calm even under very stressful situations, we are being good role models for our children. Have a sense of humor. Humor works wonders even in some of the most difficult circumstances. It helps in diffusing potentially explosive situations. Finally, be an active participant in your childs life. Whether it is their school, sports or other activities, be there to support them. Stay connected. Let them know that you love them and are there for them at all times.
Balwant Sanghera
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